JAKE MCCONELL
Anthology Series
An outsider in the truest sense, Jake carried a depth that was both extraordinary and heavy. A beautiful, bizarre soul who walked his own path in the world. Depression took him from us, but he lingers in my mind.
I can’t help but to think of the nights we were yet to conquer, the films left unwatched, and the futures we imagined, all vanished like smoke in the wind. I miss him every day...
He embodied a strange blend of the figures he admired: part Tom Waits, part Nick Drake, with a touch of Sid Vicious and John Cooper Clarke. There was something unique about him, as if he had stepped out of a Jim Jarmusch film, a half drifter. His ironic grit and crooked smile carried the weight of someone who’d seen too much and laughed anyway. He understood life’s unfair rhythm better than most, and somehow, he always managed to keep the score.
For a long time after he passed, he kept showing up in my dreams—always the same visceral presence. I still remember the day I got the news: that sharp, high-pitched ringing in my ears that wouldn’t go away, as if the world had gone mute... I was nineteen, and denial hit me in a way I’d never experienced before. His death cracked something open, a clean break between the careless safety of youth, into the cold void of adulthood.
We both gravitated toward the outsiders: the misfits, the strange, the ones who lived just beyond society’s edges. But his curiosity ran deeper, braver. He sought out the shadows most of us only glance at before looking away. Where others felt unease, he found belonging. He was a quiet navigator of hidden worlds, drifting through the corners of human experience that most of us encounter only in the darker parts of ourselves.
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The Chicago winter that followed his passing was especially cold and unforgiving. The nights felt endless. My roommates and I would sit around our dimly lit apartment, talking for hours about life—family, love, the broken systems that shape us, the strange rituals of college culture. Everything seemed up for questioning. My thoughts ran wild, bouncing from one idea to another as I tried to make sense of it all—to understand, to rationalize, to empathize, to find some thread that could explain why things happen the way they do.
These days, I can go weeks without thinking about Jake. It took years to get to that point. But every now and then, his face suddenly flashes in my mind—sharp and unexpected, like a slap that pulls me out of whatever noise I’m caught in. In the chaos and absurdity of the show business world in Los Angeles, his memory cuts through the illusion, anchoring me back to what’s real.
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